from dearest weini's blog.
8 qualities of my PERFECT lover.
1. must be 100% male. cannot have any alternate sexualities.
2. i HOPE can be at least 170 cm tall. best range = 172 - 175
3. dont need to be VERY HANDSOME, but must be pleasant looking. to ME at least. (:
4. must be chatty. cuz i like to talk.
5. be kind, loving, and caring. to me especially.
6. have just the right amount of muscles. not too much, not too little. JUST RIGHT.
7. be at least on the same intellectual wavelength as me. must be able to hold both serious AND relaxed conversations with me.
8. love me lots, be respectful to my parents, and respect my descision.
hahas. not much to espect right? i think alot of people can fall into this range bah. but actually i think, a perfect lover doesnt exist bah. if he's perfect in every aspect, then i would probably not fall in love with him. he'll just be someone i feel is unattainable and will feel insecure with. cuz he's too perfect, and im not.
and don't you think being with a perfect man 24/7 is scary? you'll be the only one making mistakes, but because he's perfect, he wouldn't mind at all. then in the end, i'll end up feeling guilty and the relationship confirm wont work.
and of course everyone has to have some bad points to improve on. for both the partners to discover and help each other along. right? that is why good relationship must consider a lot of factors.
loving someone is painful, but being loved is fortunate.
so love someone, and have someone to love you too. (: